Sugar Nymphs

When I mentioned the route I’d be riding on das motorrad and that it would include Peñasco, Sallie said, “Sugar Nymphs, if you haven’t been there, you must stop for lunch!”

And I wondered, “Sugar Nymphs what?... In Peñasco?... in my book, sweets have to be exceptional or not at all…”

A body in motion tends to stay in motion, and when I’m in, or on, a vehicle I fall into this tendency, or trap. Especially when I’m on the bike, the journey is about the riding. To a fault, I get my teeth on the bit and just ride, ride, ride, the cost often being I blast right on by little places well worth exploring.

Coming into Peñasco from Vadito, there it is, Sugar Nymphs Bistro, right next to the old theatre. The place looks cheery and there are cars in the parking lot - always a good sign. It’s lunchtime and I slow and peer at the place, survey the scene, and almost, almost, pull in. But the momentum beast had me in its grips. I keep rolling. And I think, “Gordon! For Pete’s sakes, turn around and go in!” Whenever Sallie recommends a place to eat or a book to read, it’s always spot on. So I grapple with the beast, triumph over it and turn around.

Sugar Nymphs Bistro is a gem, it is a rare gem. From the murals painted on the outside walls to the atmosphere of the cozy dining room, it’s clear this little eatery is an expression of what co-owners Kai Harper and Ki Holste love to do. And they back it up with sophisticated talents developed over years cheffing and restaurateuring in the Bay Area.

Being Sunday, the menu is for brunch. I already had eggs for breakfast so I read my way down the sheet past egg and pancake offerings, to find a grilled pork loin sandwich. This, with a salad instead of fries will fit the bill. I also order coffee. The waitress is prompt and courteous and friendly.

When the coffee arrives so does a scone. Hmm… I didn’t order one, but I’m not going to argue. Turns out the scone is complimentary at brunch. It’s homemade and so is the mixed berry compote in the accompanying little cup. Like the scone, the compote is warm. Not hot, but warm, just right to bring out the bouquet of the fruit. The scone is flaky and rich and with a dab of the compote and a sip of coffee, I am in heaven. At least I think I am, until my sandwich arrives. Then I know it.

The bun, naturally, is homemade. The crust is resplendent under a light egg glaze, and makes itself known without me feeling the need to see a Periodontist; the fine textured bread within has just enough substance to stand up to the fillings. And the slices of pork loin, which actually taste like pork and not some ubiquitous other white meat, melt in my mouth. How do they do this? This is in league with a perfectly grilled filet mignon. Earthy and mouthwatering. The sandwich features a swipe of spiced mayonnaise, a few baby greens and slices of tomato. Oh, the tomato. I’m talking just picked from your garden, tomato. Its sweet tang sings a beautiful harmony with the pork. The small mixed greens salad on the side provides my palate with a resting place from the sandwich.

When walking in, I made note of the carrot cake hovering on one end of the lunch counter. Beautifully done. The waitress sees I’ve finished the sandwich and asks if I’d like dessert. Well, I do love carrot cake but I am… just right. Not one thin wafer… and I decline.

Thank goodness for the times and places like Sugar Nymphs Bistro, where inspiration prevails. For these few moments dining, I have been elevated into a world of care and effort and love and fineness. Do I have to get on the motorcycle and go away? Might they adopt me? And feed me? Forever?

Go to Peñasco; it is not out of the way. The High Road to Taos winds into the foothills of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains, through little Northern New Mexico towns and beautiful landscape. It’s one of the great drives, or rides, in the country, and it happens to be the way to Sugar Nymphs Bistro.

Gordon Bunker

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I Ate A Conventional Crumb

This all started with a string of comments on Facebook where I couldn’t help be a smarty-pants, and with a few friends poke fun at some… behavior, observed recently at Whole Paycheck.

A customer threw a hissy fit after learning the toaster they were using to crisp up a slice of their organic bread had also been used for toasting non-organic, or conventional bread. The trouble was their organic toast stood a chance of being contaminated with a conventional crumb. Heavens NO! My source also reports observing another customer at the checkout, demanding the cashier enter the SKU of each item manually rather than scan them, the concern being the electromagnetic field of the scanner would taint the food.

Oh dear. Am I alone in thinking life is way, way, too easy for some people?

If you could see these individual’s entire experience, their behavior at any moment would make perfect sense. Maybe. Whether they were self-absorbed and feeling entitled, or neurotic, or full on wacko is hard to tell, but the behavior seems just a skosh far-fetched. Doing my best to empathize, yikes, if they get this bent out of shape over such minutia, what the rest of their lives must be like… I feel for them. It can’t be a happy place.

This leads me to think about the people I’ve known on the approximately opposite end of the spectrum who have lived with scarcity. I’m talking about hard scrabble go-without-a-lot-of-things-many-people-take-for-granted scarcity. These people are not concerned with slight inconsistencies in the ingredients of their toast. At all. Rather they are thankful to have something to eat, knowing well the value of food, the measure being hunger.

Friends who not long ago came to this country from Mexico, who know a thing or three about deprivation, invited me to a birthday party they were throwing for their two year old daughter. Of the fifty or more assembled guests, far as I could tell, the vast majority was from a background similar to that of the host and hostess. The buffet lunch went on and on, all homemade and a huge effort and expense relative to the means of my friends. No one appeared to quibble over the ingredients and no one, not even the kids was picky.

Everyone had plates full and faces beaming. Alegría de vivir filled the air, and we ate with gusto. We sang and danced, well, some of us danced. We were there to celebrate and our expressions and gestures filled any voids left by the lack of common words. It was a wonderful time and an honor to be included. I left with mi panza llena, mi corazón contento.

While I wouldn’t wish hardship on anyone, there seems to be a correlation between it and having a level-headed set of priorities; not to mention a propensity to enjoy life.

Gordon Bunker

The Motorcycle Officer

When I find myself entangled with people who don’t live up to the commitments they make, well, it’s about the most challenging set of circumstances I can think of. And I’m in the thick of it right now with the people I rent my place from. On the surface it’s all smiles and, “If there’s anything you need, let us know and we’ll take care of it.” In reality, I’ve been living with a mal-functioning furnace for almost a month and can look back on what only amounts to a waste of time and energy trying to get the thing fixed. Adding insult to injury, before the furnace went on the blink, I agreed to an increase in rent.

So this morning while I don’t like it at all, I write a new fatter check. And then I walk into town to drop the check off with the rental management people. A deal’s a deal. Some things, though bitter pills to swallow are worth more than a few bucks. Being able to sleep at night, for example; something I did enjoy before the furnace started behaving like the main boiler in the Bismarck.

From across the Paseo, walking toward the back side of the state capitol building, I spot two Motorcycle Police Officers in the circular driveway getting on their bikes. Being a motorcyclist, I am keenly aware of other riders when I see them, and Motorcycle Police stand out. One of the officers pulls onto Don Gaspar and at the light comes to a stop in the right-hand lane. By this time I’m mid-way crossing the Paseo.

The bike looks like a Honda ST, but with all the gear bolted onto it, in just a glance it’s hard to tell. It is no BMW R bike, that’s for sure. Whether this is a City of Santa Fe or New Mexico State Police Motorcycle Unit I can’t be certain, but everything about this officer and his bike is sharp. The bike is spotless (and I do mean spotless), shining, and in perfect tune. The officer’s uniform is impeccable and the way he handles the bike is a thing of beauty. Based on these observations, and without hesitation, I have a deep respect for him. What he presents by his attention to detail is a person who takes pride in living up to the commitments made to his job, his office and his community.

Police on duty are serious people. You never see an officer in uniform on a street corner yuk it up with a few buds, laughing his head off. At least I never have. Officers on duty, at their friendliest are very reserved, and this is ok. Their job is a serious one, sometimes in a moment’s notice gravely so. But this officer is a motorcyclist - with this form he has to be - and he is a guy, so my bet is, riding this bike is a lot more to him than a job. And I want to show my appreciation.

I have the walk sign, and he yields to my right of way. All in about five seconds, I look at him and smile, he looks at me with a serious face; still smiling I then give him a thumbs-up, and he smiles back. Ever. So. Slightly. And that’s huge. The connection does my heart more good than I can say.

Sincere thanks to the unknown Motorcycle Officer.

Gordon Bunker

ps. As I put the finishing touches on this essay, my phone rings and it’s the furnace repairman. He tells me one of his crew will be here tomorrow.